Helping Elders Through Mediation
As our families age, members of our family may have new needs as far as long-term care. It becomes even more essential if age impacts cognitive functioning or independence.
Adult children or extended family members usually have unique strengths to offer in these circumstances. It is important to recognize the unique gifts and strengths in the family and possible contributions each member could offer. Assigned roles may be important for decision making with legal implications for financial concerns or healthcare advocacy. In addition, it is important to be mindful of our aging loved one’s individual dignity and right to self-determination to the extent possible. This is not an easy time. Family discord may cause lasting tensions due to the weight of difficult decisions and need for support. Mediation that facilitates a close look at family strengths and needs as well as each member’s ability to contribute may be protective of all those impacted. Elder care plans could be established early in the aging process with the active participation of the aging individual alongside their loved ones so that all wants and needs are heard and considered as agreements are made.
